Importance Of Fantasy

It may be an obvious thing to say, but I think fantasy is an excellent way to communicate the things that turn you on. I also think it's one of those things that is obvious, only when you see it written down or said out loud.

I've seen several comments that report my blog has inspired some better communication, or even a confession or two. You have no idea how chuffed this makes me feel! But I have to remind myself that one should not take this first step too lightly: communication / confession is a continuous occupation. I can only wish you can keep at it, and good luck.

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More Please

I've touched on this before, I think: Be mindful of burn-out. Being a domme is hard work, for the majority. I think it was Kraft-Ebbing that found only 5% of women to be truely sadistic. So, a change is as good as a rest, unless you're married to a sadist.

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The Fantasy Continues

When entering pubity, only a few of us are lucky enough to figure out all that we like. I remember coming across chastity belt sites (particularly Altarboy's) about a decade ago, and finally figured it out. I was in my forties. Whoever said 'youth is wasted on the young' had it spot on. I hope you're all making up for lost time.

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Fun. It Has To Be Fun

All of these games must be fun. If they're not, do something else that is. Usually it's the guy introducing chastity play. The lady may very well have reservations. Don't dissmiss them, if you don't want your fantasies dissmissed in the same manner.

There is a lot of fun to be had. Here are some of my fun ideas of fun...

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