Taking That First Scary, Unsure Step

It's always exciting and scary at the beginning. I think I keep coming back to this part of the game, because S&M is making the scary erotic. It's a fundamental part of the human condition where ghosts, goblins and things that go bump in the night, have been part of many cultures for as long as recorded history itself.

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Devalued Submisive Males

Saw something on Tom Allen's site Edge of Vanilla about word of how the value of the submissive male is generally low. I can empathise with this view. (You may have noticed that in my captions the ladies are the keyholders!) It's a sad fact that there are more submisives than dominants. To continue the generalisations, even switches enjoy more time as the sub, if they can. This of course creates a 'buyer's market'.

The attitude of 'behave as I want, 'cause there's plenty more where you came from' is not just a fantasy threat, sadly. Will this make us better people, or will it make us bitter? My view is that a power exchange relationship is the same as any other, in that both parties have to be suited to one another. Interests in the kinky do not create a match in itself.

By shere statistics, there will be many submissives that will never find their domme/dom soul mate. They will have to reach some inner peace as best they can, and be content with fantasy.

Of course, this could all just be in my head! Enjoy these fantasies where the ladies play for keeps...

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Dazed And Confused

I don't seem to be getting my act together this month, or last month. It's been a while since I posted, sorry. I continue to do the odd caption, but haven't posted them. These are some older ones. Stay tuned to this channel!

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Continuing to be Dazed

One of my reoccurring fantasies is how it all starts, with the keyholder uncertain about it all. (Sadly, the truth seems to always have the element of surprise!) But then, everythings going to be all right. - It's my fantasy!

Don't worry, I'm sure it'll be all right.

Sometimes all you need is a little help...

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The Fantasy Continues

When entering pubity, only a few of us are lucky enough to figure out all that we like. I remember coming across chastity belt sites (particularly Altarboy's) about a decade ago, and finally figured it out. I was in my forties. Whoever said 'youth is wasted on the young' had it spot on. I hope you're all making up for lost time.

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Fun. It Has To Be Fun

All of these games must be fun. If they're not, do something else that is. Usually it's the guy introducing chastity play. The lady may very well have reservations. Don't dissmiss them, if you don't want your fantasies dissmissed in the same manner.

There is a lot of fun to be had. Here are some of my fun ideas of fun...

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